IVOR RUPERT ASHAM

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IVOR RUPERT ASHAM

May 4, 1952 – July 15, 2026

With broken hearts we sadly announce the passing of Ivor Rupert Asham , at the age of 74.

What can you say about a man who lived large, spoke quietly, and helped everyone who needed a hand? You could say Ivor Asham was one-of-a-kind, and you'd be right. You could say Ivor was the North Star for a lot of people, and you'd be right. You could say he could solve most problems with the utility knife in his pocket, and you'd be right. You could say he lived his life with compassion, and you'd be right. What you can absolutely say is that he will be missed so desperately by so many.

Ivor was born "back home" at the homestead near Alonsa, Manitoba. He was the third son of eight children born to Norman and Evelyn. Seven of the eight children were born at home and delivered by their Grandma, who acted as midwife. Ivor's unique name came from his mother's brother, for whom he was named.

From the very beginning, Ivor was happiest outside, in the open. He grew up roaming the countryside with his brothers and sisters and helping his parents on the farm. When he got older, he moved to Portage la Prairie, Manitoba, where he worked as a tax assessor. His love of sports – baseball, hockey, and curling in particular – led him to his next career – working with his brother Arnold at Asham Curling Supplies for several years, where he became well known for crafting sliders. Everyone who dealt with him, customers and coworkers alike, remembered him for his kindness.

In 1992, Ivor found his calling and made his dream come true. He bought Birds Hill Park Ranch. He built up a reputation in the horse community as someone who "knows horses." He was a touchpoint for many new and seasoned horse owners, and he offered the opportunity to be with horses to those who would otherwise not have a chance. He opened doors for people, literally and figuratively, by showing people the ropes, but also welcoming in anyone who walked by.

The Ranch became a fixture, not only for his family, but for many people in the community. His breakfasts were famous, his coffee kept people going, he always had some Bannock ready if anyone should be hungry, and he always had sports on the TV, providing lots of advice for the Blue Jays from his own days playing high-calibre ball.

He owned The Ranch, but he also ran it – he was driving the tractor, moving hay, harnessing horses, and driving the wagons, introducing himself as "Ivor the Driver." Ivor loved horses, and he loved people, and anyone who came to The Ranch could clearly see that.

Rivalling Ivor's love of horses was his family. He was an adoring grandfather and a Dad who was always ready with a slap on the back and warm welcome. His many friends were like his family, too. He leaves to mourn far too many people to mention. So many people were dear to Ivor. You know who you are. Thank you for loving him so completely.

His wife Carol was by his side through his short illness and lovingly cared for him as he said goodbye. His sons Sean (Tara) and Evan, and his daughter Cara mourn a Dad who was so very proud of the people they had become. His granddaughters Wilkie and Maeve will remember him forever as the Grandpa who gave them the world and always had a special shelf full of treats for them. His surviving brothers and sisters – Betty, Fern, Arnold, Garth, Kelly – will mourn their brother for the salt-of-the-earth man he was. He kept close with all of them and an Asham get-together was always a foot stomper.

Predeceasing Ivor was his parents, his brother Stevie, and his sister Thelma, as well as several very close friends whose loss was felt profoundly by Ivor.

Ivor worked in the movies. He worked in the mud. He made room for everyone at his table. None of us know what we will do without him. The world is less without him in it.

Rest easy, Ivor. Hang up your boots.

We got it from here and will catch you at the end of the trail. Keep your nose to the wind and your eye on the tree line.

A Celebration of Life will take place. Plans will be announced at a later date.

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jul 18, 2026