MELODIE LYNNE ATEAH

Condolences & Memories (38 entries)

• I think of Mel often, but am 'talking' to her a bit less, I smile more often and laugh when I think of her, less sad, but I am counting each day as Nov 23 approaches . . . you know 10 more days and it will be a year since Mel passed . . . . not that Mel will ever read this, but you may be gone Mel, but you're sure not forgotten, and thanks for the happy memories . . . . . I'll have a cup of tea from the tea you gave me on the 23rd . . . . those tea bags are precious now . . . I'll be sure to 'save' the last one and tuck it away . . . a wonderful keepsake - Posted by: Susan Sullivan (Friend) on: Nov 13, 2013

• so many years ago, melodie's and rosemary's favorite horse was sacred easter - Posted by: linda iwaszewski () on: Dec 20, 2012

• many of my earliest memories have melodie in them, because of the close friendship with my sister donna. melodie was special, and very kind. i hope she's with her mom, and grandma, she loved them so much..with mitzi on her lap, spooky beside her chair, and just outside the door..flipping his haynet and making faces, their beloved tere de wire...xxxx - Posted by: linda iwaszewski (kozlowski) () on: Dec 19, 2012

• Our sincere condolences and deepest sympathies to Bob and the rest of the family and loved ones Of Melody. - Posted by: Marian and Murray Bruyere () on: Dec 19, 2012

• Mel and I met in the fall of 2010 through a cottage purchase at the Beaches. I had to withdraw due to my mother’s sudden and serious health crisis. I contacted Mel to let her know I just couldn’t go forward and why. Instead of the expected thanks for letting me know, and give me a call when you’re ready to go ahead again, she told me all about her mother’s illness and death and how traumatic it was for her. Mel told me she totally understood and not to worry about it at all. Then Mel invited me to keep in touch with her to let her know how my mother was doing. So I did. This led to regular correspondence over the winter and into the early spring. During that time of correspondence we talked about anything and everything. Mel told me I reminded her of herself, and that she got a kick out of my emails because I sort of talked like her, Mel told me you’re nothing but an old hippy and that I was hilarious. I told Mel she had me pegged for sure, I am an old hippy and proud of it, and that I was never going to take my beads off. We had a good laugh about that. Amongst other things, we talked about our pets, past and present, and our relationships with each of them. Spring came, and I finally felt strong enough to start looking again. On our second meeting, I knew that I’d met and connected with an outstandingly beautiful human being. This time we spontaneously hugged when we said goodbye. To me, she just sparkled, her happiness and joy bubbled over, coupled with her deep soul. I really liked Mel ! Even after the sale was concluded, Mel and I continued to correspond and chat on the phone. Fun and laughter was the constant current between us. We kept on moving forward and learning more about each other. I drove my husband Don nuts, I’d say well Mel says this, Mel says that! I’m sure he thought me crazy talking so much about a person I’d just met!!!! I started to tell my friends in Winnipeg about this wonderful person I’d met up at the Beaches. Just before I moved to the Beaches in May of 2011, Mel sent me an email about the move, and at the end of that email told me she thought we would become good friends. I responded telling her I too had had that funny feeling that we’d become good friends, and of course both of our emails ended with LOL in caps. Because of Mel’s offer of friendship, her genuineness and her passion for the Beaches, I was truly looking forward to moving to a new place where I literally did not know one person. She easily convinced me that with a bit of effort I could make this my new home, and be happy here. I totally believed her. I looked forward to making that journey with her as my very first Beach friend. Neither of us could have possibly known how short that friendship would be. After the move our visits were very rich, easy and fluid. We discovered a lot of similarities between our lives and ourselves. We talked about our love of nature, how living amongst the trees healed us, how the shore and the water was so spiritual and rejuvenating for us. We talked Beach and what that meant to us. We agreed that Beach was a philosophy or belief system that integrated itself on every level of your being. To find a fellow human that understood your Beach was pretty amazing. We shared our belief that the east beaches are truly a magical and special place. All of this commonality, lent itself to some serious sharing of stories of our entire lives and all that that encompassed. Both of us were so busy with work, it was very hard for us to find time to chill and hang out. We eked it out in bits and pieces, by grabbing lunch at the Idlyetyme, taking turns treating each other, grabbing an ice cream together to have a chat, going for a drive to check signs, or just visiting at home whenever we could. We kept talking about future slower times when we might be able to do some serious hanging out and chillin. .I so loved that about her, that easy going laid back vibe. As part of our hangin out, Mel included me in her Grand Beach book club Christmas gathering last year, and introduced me to some amazing women there. On the way showing me how to take the back road from Lester to Grand Beach, all the while firmly warning me about the dangers of totally wrecking my car while doing so !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and of course us laughing about that all the way !!!!! Future planning was so much fun with Mel, as she was all about the future. She shared all her hopes and dreams with me, growing her company, offering new services, her new office, renos, decorating, her vision for that place was exciting. She was so pumped and thrilled at the opportunity to have her own building for her business. Mel’s generosity of spirit and mentoring for business was amazing. She supported my idea of offering property management services in the east beaches and was working on getting me exposure and clients for me to service under the Ateah Realty umbrella when I was ready to move forward. She said we can hang out and do property checks together in the winter, wouldn’t that be fun?! So many plans, so much fun, so much onwards and upwards. I can’t even begin to express how much I will miss Mel and all those lovely future plans not to be realized. I will miss her intelligence, creativity, kindness, sensitivity, generosity and her big loving heart, but most of all I’ll miss a kindred spirit. Susan Sullivan,Friend, full time resident - Lester Beach - Posted by: Susan Sullivan (Friend) on: Dec 10, 2012

• Our most sincere condolences to Mel's family. We'll miss you so much. - Posted by: Susan, Don, Caitie, Rio and Sabai Sullivan (Client and Friend) on: Dec 09, 2012

• I was saddened to hear about the passing of Melodie. She was a great gal who grew to be a warm soul and whose smile could light up a room. I remember cruising around in her cherry red convertible, laughing our way through life, dreaming of our futures. Her ambition and determination shone through early in age and I knew she would succeed. My condolences to her family, know that she is missed and will always be remembered by so many people. - Posted by: Debra (Kozlowski) Celone () on: Dec 09, 2012

• I am greatly saddened that Melodie has died. I first met her about 3 years ago when Julie Petrucka was keen to start a book club at the spirit rock cafe. She joined a bit later than the rest of us. My first impressions remained with me. She was a wonderfully dignified person and never mean spirited. I do remember that her work required long hours. She had a lovely smile and when she spoke with you you felt she gave you her full attention. Of course, all the fellas thought the bookclub was a camouflage for drink and laughter and a word or two about the book we were meant to critique. Of course, they were right. Melodie added to the merriment and naughtiness. I shall remember her always as a wonderful person that I met along my life journey. - Posted by: olya marko (acquaintance) on: Dec 06, 2012

• I met Melodie in grade six at Lansdowne school. I still remember the dress she was wearing, blue with bright splashes of colour. It seems that she came along when I needed her the most, and we became friends for always. We went through the our time together, camping, concerts with friends, and just hanging out at her grandmother's place and at the racetrack with her mom. We had so much fun. Eventually, we both moved out of the city and as it often does with friends, time between visits stretched. When we did get together again we quickly got caught up and relived "old times" for hours. I don't want to say goodbye to my friend. She loved her family and friends so very much. She was so talented, loyal, and smart. We all knew that she would be the successful one of us all. I will miss her. Donna (Kozlowski) George - Posted by: Donna George (Friend) on: Dec 05, 2012

• Our hearts go to all the family and friends of Melodie. May you all cherish her memory. - Posted by: Duncan & Janis McDougall (Friends of Terry Jr) on: Dec 05, 2012

• I met Mel many years ago when she began dating my cousin Bob and instantly became a welcomed member of the Ateah family! My memories of Mel are that of an incredibly soft and kind hearted person with a true love of all living creatures. She was such a happy lady and every time I saw Mel, she greeted me with a smile and a "hi Deb, how are you" She had a great and unique laugh that seemed to go on and on. But I think my most favorite memory of Mel, was her love of "Sweets" as that is a common bond her and I shared. When she would come over all those Christmas Eves and we would take turns munching out on all my mom's baking! Every time I eat a Christmas goodie, I'll say to myself...this one's for you Mel! You will be sadly missed and so fondly remembered. My sincere condolences to my cousin Bob, great aunt and uncle Nancy and Karl, and all of Mel's family. - Posted by: Deb Ateah Johansson ((extended family-cousin through marriage)) on: Dec 05, 2012

• I met Mel when we were teenagers, and we shared many years of friendship and tons of fun. We lived in the same big house on Selkirk Avenue and partied together, camped, spent time at the racetrack, took singing lessons, camped....so much life. Mel was intelligent, kind, soft-spoken, wittier than heck, and a devoted and loving friend. We lost contact for several years, but had reconnected just over a year ago. We finally saw each other at Terry Jr. and Monica's place, back in June. I'm so very grateful that we got to see each other again. My deepest sympathy to Bob, Terry Sr. and her step-mom, Terry Jr. and Monica, and all her nieces and nephews, extended family and friends. You're in good company, Mel, with all our loved ones who have passed from this life. I love you, Melodie. - Posted by: Isabel Anderson (Cruickshank) (friend) on: Dec 04, 2012

• Melodie will be truly missed as she was such a beautiful person. Always with a smile leaving a big gap in the lives of all who knew her. Our prayers are with her and her family. God Bless! - Posted by: Brian & Jean Grant (Friends) on: Dec 04, 2012

• Mel was one of my first friends after moving to cottage country. We rarely saw each other but always had a laugh when we met again. I will miss her. My condolences to Bob and her huge extended family and friends. - Posted by: Donna Shilliday (Friend) on: Dec 04, 2012

• Our condolences to Terry and Glynis over the death of their beloved daughter, Melodie. Our sympathy is also extended to her husband, Bob...our thoughts and prayers are with you all. - Posted by: Sybil and Ted Bagshaw (Friends of Melodie's father, Terry and her step mother, Glynis) on: Dec 03, 2012

• What a beautiful lady. She will be greatly missed. - Posted by: bETH AND LARRY (Friends of Nancy's. ) on: Dec 03, 2012

• I was very saddened to hear the news of Melody's passing. My sincere condolences to Bob and the many people in her life that are grieving her loss. - Posted by: David Glavina (Client and V.B. neigbour ) on: Dec 03, 2012

• When we moved to the lake in 1998 Mel took me under her wing and introduced me to people. I remember Susan, Mel and myself going to Xmas Craft Sales all day in Selkirk a fun day had by all. Bob and her spent lots of time with Pete and myself and we had lots of good times. When Mel and I worked in Pine Falls we always had a lunch date most Fridays at the Lodge. Lots of fun and laughter. When Mel got into real estate she soared to success as she always did. We will truly miss her smile and calm dispostion. Our sincere condolences to Bob and family our thoughts are with you. - Posted by: Kim and Peter Turcotte (Friends) on: Dec 03, 2012

• Mel was a very professional beautiful person. She sold us our property in 2009. And since Spring 2012 gave me the opportunity to join the Ateah Realty Family, She has always inspired me, and will be truly missed... - Posted by: Sherri Feakes & Family (Friend) on: Dec 03, 2012

• We are so sorry for your loss - I didn't know Melodie well but we had a common bond through real estate and I was continually impressed to see the progress she was making with her business. We were out at Hillside Beach this weekend and were continually reminded about her impact on virtually every street we went down-a life really cut far too short. Our sincere condolences to her family and loved ones. - Posted by: Susan Auch and family () on: Dec 03, 2012

• Graham and I have known Mel for many years, we are so saddened to hear of her passing. Our sincere condolences go out to Bob and her family. I will never forget the day Mel and I went horseback riding at the beach. It was so many years ago but for me one of the best days ever. - Posted by: Dianne Cameron () on: Dec 03, 2012

• Melody was a friend from the seventies from high school and the Assiniboine Downs race track. Her mother Rosemary was very close with my sister Barb as they trained and shared their love of horses together. I worked for Rosemary for a short period at the track and always enjoyed both Melody's and her mom's company and friendship. Recently I was re-introduced to Melody through a common career path. We both became real estate appraisers through the Appraisal Insitute of Canada. Melody, as I understand it was about to receive her acceditation of CRA with the institute just prior to her passing. No small feat and it speaks volumes to her professional dedication. As a foot note Melody has been awarded the acceditation of CRA as worked so hard towards and she most rightly deserves. - Posted by: Cameron Hink (Friend ) on: Dec 03, 2012

• We will miss such a generous and caring person. Deepest condolences. Melodie will always be in our hearts. - Posted by: Matthew Allen, William Oliveira (Cousins) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Melodie always had a kind word and a smile for those around her. Her presence brightened any room she walked into which was greatly appreciated and much needed while she supported us during Kelly's final days. Her passing was both unexpected and tragic. It seems like just yesterday she was the picture of health, sharing stories from her own life and reminiscing about days gone by spent with Terry and my father. She may be gone but her presence is with us still. - Posted by: Andrew Allen (Extended Family) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Mel and I became very close after the purchase of my cottage which she sold to me in 2006. She become one of my closest friends, confident and mentor. I admired her for so many things. My fondest memories of course will be our trip to New Zealand and Australia together..I am so glad I went with her. Rest in Peace Mel..Love you forever! - Posted by: Debbie Fedyck-Smithson (Friend) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Bob, and to your parents, at this difficult time. Regards, - Posted by: Deirdre & Hub () on: Dec 02, 2012

• I met Melodie through Angie Trainor when my husband and I moved out to the beach. We became fast friends and shared many of life's ups and downs over the past 15 years. Melodie also introduced me to a great friend, Chery Daher, and the 3 of us had many laughs together. Mel loved going out for breakfast, lunch or dinner, anytime, anywhere. We shared a love of animals and even our pets became friends. I admired Mel's work ethic, stamina and willingness to face new challenges head on. She was a warrior during her illness and never complained. Though her life was too short, it was filled with accomplishments and joy and I will miss her. I picture Melodie reunited with her Mom riding through a field of flowers with Shadow (her beloved blue heeler) in tow. - Posted by: Susan Thomas (Friend/Colleague) on: Dec 02, 2012

• I love you dear sister, my irreplaceable source of strength and inspiration. We will hold you close in our hearts and memories for all our lives. With much love; Flynne, Kyle, Eric and Julia. - Posted by: Flynne (Sister) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Dear Bob, family and extended family members, It was with a great sense of grief when we heard of your loss. Melodie was more than just a wonderful friend she was always so kind, considerate and giving to us and her clients. We always welcomed seeing her at every opportunity. Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of all who knew her. She was a great gal and we know our lives will never be the same without her. We could never find a better and more caring friend. She has left us with so many wonderful memories. We will cherish them forever. Love you a bunch Mel. In Deep Sorrow, Paulette and Ian Pratt - Posted by: Paulette and Ian Pratt (Friend) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Condolences to the family. Mel was an easy person with whom to carry on a conversation & her presence was always welcome. Jan always spoke highly of Mel. - Posted by: Herb Harbour (Former VB'er) on: Dec 02, 2012

• Mel & i met at assinaboia downs approx. 1978 when her mother hired me to groom her race horses. We began hanging around & forming a fun friendship. We definately had horses & music in common. My best memories are fr the 80's when we would drive around grand beach in her convertible blasting rock & roll. We also would go to music concerts & trail rides on the horses. One time when we were camping in the north star trail with a group it rained really hard. We went to our friend gary makota's house and played guitar late into the night and kept warm & dry. I now picture mel riding horses with her mom & my daughter mel in heaven. I love you mel! Yr friend angie - Posted by: angie trainor (friend) on: Dec 01, 2012

• I have fond memories of visiting with Mel while our boy's played hockey...and we sure did have one heck of an awesome year of soccer in 2000! You will be missed Melodie - Posted by: keirin (friend) on: Dec 01, 2012

• Rest now Sis. Until we meet again.... All our love , Terry, Monica, Callie and Keenan - Posted by: Terry Morris Jr. (Brother) on: Dec 01, 2012

• Great person to know so sorry - Posted by: Ken jacques (Friend) on: Dec 01, 2012

• It sadden me to here about Melodie pasing. My family has been at the beach for over 50 years an feel the Ateah 's are part of the family. My prayers go out to Bob and the rest of the family. Virginia Brice 311 fourth - Posted by: Virginia Brice (VB owner) on: Dec 01, 2012

• We were shocked and saddened to hear of Melodie's passing. We only met her once, a few summers ago at an open house at Victoria Beach. It took us 5 mins to tour the cottage, but we spent almost 30 minutes talking with Melodie. It was like we had been friends for years. She was funny and articulate and we chatted and laughed about so many things, strangers but she made us feel like life-long friends. We will not forget that special summer afternoon. 0ur deepest condolences to Melodie's family and friends. Petr and Grazia Prochazka - Posted by: Grazia Prochazka () on: Dec 01, 2012

• I will always treasure the memory of Mel. In the 30 odd years I have known her, she was always kind, generous and caring. The world needs more like her! - Posted by: Colleen Allen (cousin through marriage - sister by choice) on: Dec 01, 2012

• Our sincere condolences to Melodie's family. Melodie was an excellent realtor, always professional and a wonderful person. She will be missed. - Posted by: Kim and Terry Wozniak (Clients) on: Dec 01, 2012