MICHAEL DOUGLAS HEDLEY FINKBEINER -

Condolences & Memories (68 entries)

• Omg ... had no idea ..going through old emails and Gary Frost had sent the notice. So saddened for you and your family. In reading the tributes he was certainly loved and respected ... and still had time to laugh and have fun with his business. Guessing that held him well, Eve while he was obviously so ill. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to you and ALL. oxoxoxox Gini - Posted by: Gini Lauder (Friend of Doug) on: Jun 05, 2014

• Pat and Doug, I was gutted first the hearing of Mike's illness, so dearly loved, and again, a world of my sympathy reaches to wrap you in these aching times. ...John, You might not recall way back, but I do. I had come into town, and while I waited for your mom in the kitchen (I was always waiting), you played some great tunes, beautifully. You were finding all the chords to the Clapton. I felt them, but couldn't remember more of his words, over and over fiddling around with… If I saw you In Heaven... If I were in that kitchen today, I would be honored that you allow me to play that song for all of you, and the loving faces of Mrs. Hedley and your charming grandfather, Ted. Humming along,i t might go, on this side of the door and.... Beyond the door, there’s peace I’m sure.... And I’m just sensing as your family each walk one day at a time, there’s healing in remembering, in sharing, there’s hope in knowing love goes on forever. In all those well spent days, you were all pretty much enhancing each other’s lives, and giving your uniqueness, James and John and Mike, especially noticeable. That’s a gift no loss and sorrow or time or distance can ever take away. You miss him so, yet it doesn’t quite seem a person, so cherished, so vivid, is gone, they are just changed, and that essence also living strong as ever in your heart. May you each find soothing comfort in the care of those around you, and your lives deepen in joyful moments. May peace settle gently. - Posted by: Cyndy King LeVander (friend of parents) on: Apr 24, 2013

• Pat and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincere condolences. Time heals the tears memories consoles the heart. Bonnie Balsillie ( Alex Hartungs mom) - Posted by: Bonnie Balsillie () on: Apr 06, 2013

• Pat, Doug and family: Our thoughts and sympathy go out to Finkbeiner and Hedley families. Sincerely Cindy Leslie and Staff at Bang!Hair. - Posted by: Cindy Leslie () on: Mar 20, 2013

• Sad to say that we never got the chance to meet Michael, but I wish we did, as he sounded like an amazing young man who deeply touched the many people in his life. Take care and live each day to the best Doug, Pat and the rest of the family. - Posted by: Jeff Palamar, Angie McBride & Bailey Palamar (friends ) on: Mar 16, 2013

• Mike, you are a tireless wrestler with highly deceptive core strength. Craig's basement parties and friendly set-to's at Granite Lake as well as other venues will never be the same. You (and the memory of a certain devastating reverse suplex move at the Kenricia Hotel) will be held in honour and deeply missed for as long as I live. Farewell my friend. - Posted by: Andrew Forsythe (friend) on: Mar 11, 2013

• Dear Doug and Pat. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Treasure the good memories you had with your son - Posted by: Allan Paul (Friend) on: Mar 08, 2013

• I was so shocked to hear about Mike's passing last week. I attended Kelvin High School with Fink, and got to know him during those years and afterwards through mutual friends. We were more acquaintances than close buddies, but the thing that stands out was how even when running into him on the odd occasion, he treated me like a long-lost relative. Fink was always unfailingly friendly and warm, not to mention funny and quick-witted. He was firmly in the "plus" column among any group of people. I never saw a mean side to him, and that's rare enough for anyone. I know his loss will be deeply felt by his family and his many friends. My thoughts are with the family and everyone who knew, loved or was touched by Mike. - Posted by: Ben Singer (friend/classmate) on: Mar 08, 2013

• Doug and Pat. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Treasure the good memories you had with you son. - Posted by: Doug and Lorrie Deans (friends) on: Mar 08, 2013

• Dear Pat and family, what a loss for you all. I have read the tributes from Mike's friends and wish so much I had met your amazing son as an adult. My words just can't express how deeply sorry we are to hear this news. Hold tight to your memories and know that there are many friends old and new who are supporting you in prayer. We certainly are. Love to all - Posted by: terri nand ron churchill (friend of Pat's from the 60's) on: Mar 07, 2013

• Heartbreaking news Pat and Doug. The wonderful tributes to Mike show what an amazing young man he was and how many people he helped during his short life. I am sure you are very proud. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Wish there was something we could do for you and your family. Hugs to you all across the miles, a life well lived. Love Trish and Tom - Posted by: Tom and Trish Rathwell (Friends) on: Mar 07, 2013

• I became friends with Michael (affectionately known as Fink) in grade 7 at River Heights school. We became close friends over time and especially in the last few years. He will forever be one of my greatest friends and influences in my life. A fantastically quick mind and mouth he was always able to say the right thing at the exact time it was needed. Whether it was about personal issues, hockey, politics or humor he was a wizard with the spoken word. We would all agree he could talk fast but man could he talk fast. I loved just sitting there and listening to him. I mean he would talk 90% to my 10% but that was ok, I enjoyed every second of it. Another skill was Mike had the knack of coining terms or sayings which many people still use often. I will always cherish a 2 week trip made with Mike and Jack to Barbados in 2009. The three of us had a wonderful time sitting on the beach and house patio sipping Banks beer and rum listening to the Weakerthans. We happened across a Reggae concert there in Barbados where the crowd constantly chanted 'Bap' 'Bap'. Ever since Mike would send a text or email just saying 'Bap Bap' and I knew he was in a good mood enjoying life. He sent that text to me a lot. During the trip Mike would often be seen sneeking off to check the NHL hockey stats and everything Canadian. No matter where he was hockey and home was on his mind and an expert in the subject of hockey he was. Mike 'Fink' Finkbeiner will be sadly missed as an amazing friend who no matter what was always there for me. He was a great friend even while courageously fighting a losing battle. For this I am eternally grateful. I Love you Mike. My thoughts are with his family and Princess. - Posted by: Chris Forsythe (Friend from River Heights) on: Mar 06, 2013

• My heart goes out to Michael's family and to Princess. I loved Michael's sense of humour and his easy demeanor. We had lots of laughs in our daily conversations. I will miss him, Paula - Posted by: Paula Hartfiel (worked with Michael ) on: Mar 06, 2013

• Doug and Pat. Very sorry to hear of your loss. Our sympathies. - Posted by: Clare and Irene () on: Mar 06, 2013

• My condolences to Mike's Family. I didn't know Mike for long but he made an impression on me from the time I met him. I moved over to the Mid Ticket dept in the fall of 2011. Mike would come by to chat for a few minutes here and there asking about my previous job and how it relates to my new job etc. It was really nice, you could tell he was interested and was trying to get to know me. My father passed away early January of last year and Mike was one of the first people to come by when I got back to work and ask about what had happened, and how I was doing. You could tell he was genuine and cared. I will miss him. - Posted by: Leanne Paul (Co-worker National Leasing) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Dear Pat and Doug I am so sorry to learn of Michael's passing. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. Kris and I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family and please call on us over the fence if we can do anything. Deepest Sympathies, John - Posted by: John O'Neil (Neighbor) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Dear Doug & Pat, I am thinking of you during this sad time. I know the large, loving community of which you have been a part for so many years will hold you in their hearts and in their arms. With much love, Elizabeth Taylor - Posted by: elizabeth Taylor (friend of Pat) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Dear Pat and Doug, Although it has been many years since I lived in Winnipeg and have seen you Pat, my prayers are with you, Doug and your family at this very sad time. The tributes to Michael indicate he was a terrific son, friend and brother. These stories showcase that he had the wonderful combination of both of you - smart, caring, athletic and the icing - a great sense of humor. The story of his journey to Las Vegas exemplifies how full of life, easy going and how he won over old and friends as such an amazing person. His loss will be felt by many. Sincerely Joan (Kennedy) Karlowsky - Posted by: Joan Kennedy Karlowsky (Friend from the "old" days in Winnipeg) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Very sorry to hear. Mike was a lovely fellow. I knew him from my time at River Heights and Kelvin. - Posted by: Scott Monkman (friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• I met Mike in the 7th grade and was immediately smitten. I spent many days after school at the big house on Oxford with him, Kristian, and some of the other boys, and I remember his parents being so kind and welcoming. Mike was witty, kind, and humble, and none of that changed over the years. This past summer I had a great time catching up with him. He always had the perfect thing to say, knew how to lighten up a situation, and made sure you knew he was listening to you. Fink, you were loved, you are missed. - Posted by: Mae Polloway (friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Mike was a very dear friend and it goes without saying his presence in my life is irreplaceable. I got to know Mike in junior high although it felt like I already knew him..."Fink" was a name you would hear called out all the time in our neighbourhood with laughter and excitement. I became close friends with Mike during the awkward teenage years of trying to figure out who you are and Mike's easygoing nature, confidence, and self-assuredness really helped me through those years. Many of my memories are similar to those I'm reading here...a testament to how Mike never missed a chance to have a laugh and make every moment with him one that you didn't want to end. We bonded over a sense of humor that brought us both to tears as we would laugh about ridiculous ideas we had for TV sitcoms or both of our fondness for hilariously terrible sitcoms. Me, him, and Ryan took a class at the U of W together- one where I began to figure out what I wanted to do with my life but where we also had so much fun....one laugh attack, between the three of us, turned into an awkward chuckling outburst during a lecture and forced us to evacuate until we could compose ourselves..it was priceless. Me and Mike would talk endlessly about hockey, especially the Jets, and some of you may remember how much we argued (it became an inside joke) about Dave Manson and agreed about Luciano Borsato and his breakaway capabilities. These seem like trivial points, but the thing about Mike was the so-called trivial moments were sometimes as memorable as were the bigger moments. Mike also always impressed me with his general interest about the world around him...he could talk about anything and if he couldn't, he wanted to learn about it. I always admired that so much. He could pivot from goofing around to being serious when the situation called for it. Most of my memories revolve around a closeknit group of friends we hung out with that still gets together despite busy adult lives and geographic distance. Mike did his part to keep the gang together and making it feel like we never missed a beat. And Mike had other circles like this, and you could see the same bond and I always enjoyed the company of his other friends as well, many of whom I now also call friends. Mike was the life of the party and will be sorely missed by everyone. I especially want to offer my condolences to Doug, Pat, John, and Jamie...such an incredible family that really made Mike the person he was. I'm so sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Phil Heidenreich (Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Doug and Pat, We were so devastated to hear of your loss and want to express our sincere sympathies. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Al and Mary Ann Loewen - Posted by: Amal and Mary Ann Loewen (Friends) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Pat & Doug, Sorry to hear of your loss, God Bless, Fr. Gary - Posted by: Gary Flaman (Friend of parents) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Fink. Words can't describe such an amazing guy. You helped me through tough days at work with your humour, sensibility, and ability to talk anyone through anything. You were always so level-headed and easy-going - such a grounded support in a crazy world. I'll always remember the AHL hockey games we attended, and your daily updates about the Jets, when their return was still in the rumour phase. I'll think of you everytime I raise a glass at the Fringe or Jazz festival, where we were always sure to meet. It hurts to lose you, but I am thankful to have known you. - Posted by: Maggie Johns (Worked at National Leasing with Mike) on: Mar 05, 2013

• My deepest condolences go out Mike’s family. I have worked with Mike in the mid ticket dept. at National Leasing over the past couple of years and have gotten to know him based on his positive outlook and witty sense of humor. Mike was always a guy who kept his word and could always be counted on. I feel really honored that he was able to attend my wedding this past summer despite battling health issues at that point in time. Speaks to his strength and courage. It’s sad that we have lost such a good guy at such a young age. Thanks for all the good laughs we’ve shared. - Posted by: Chester Phung (Coworker/Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Our thoughts and sympathy go out to the Finkbeiner and Hedley families - Posted by: Greg Jowett and Cathy Howden (friends of family) on: Mar 05, 2013

• Dear Pat and Doug - our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Sincerely, Jim and Arlene - Posted by: Jim and Arlene Love (Friends of parents) on: Mar 05, 2013

• My Favorite Moment with Mike Finkbeiner I am glad that I had the honor and the privilege to spend 24 sleepless hours in the Las Vegas airport with Mike Finkbeiner, and it was one of the best times of my life. Just over 4 years ago, Mike spent a week trying to convince me to go to Vegas with him and Steve Hill for a friends bachelor party. It wasn’t until Mike told me that Steve had found a ‘sweet’ deal on flights, as long as we left from Minneapolis, that I decided to go. Steve mentioned that unfortunately the flight from Minneapolis was horridly early but he had a sister who lived there that could have us stay overnight and get us to the airport in the morning. Steve then went on to assure us that the flight home from Vegas wasn’t until 1pm after a weekend of bachelor party fun and festivities and that we shouldn’t worry because ‘he’ would take care of our flight tickets. None of us had ever been to Vegas. We were excited. So, Fink and I willingly hopped into Steve’s car for a road trip to Minneapolis, Vegas being our final destination. Vegas was a blast. I was so happy Fink had invited me. I truly enjoyed every moment of his company in that city. We were in such awe that one city could be so much fun. Sleep was not an option. We explored every part of that city that we could in the 3 days that we had. The best part was that we got to explore it with a beer always in our hand. We talked lots, learned lots about each other and had a rare, yet fantastic, opportunity to spend lots of time together. Our friendship grew over those 3 days…but nothing compared to what was about to happen. Everything was going so smoothly until we said goodbye to the guys we were there celebrating the bachelor party with, and took a cab to the Vegas airport. When we got to the airport, we were shocked to find out that the now defunct (for obvious travel time inconsistencies) Steve Hill travel agency had booked our flight home at 1am not 1pm…so much for the sweet deal. We were a whole 12 hours late for our flight. We would have to fly stand by. The check in clerk proceeded to tell us she had good news. There was a flight leaving for Minneapolis in 30min with 1 seat available…did we want it? Fink, calm cool and collected about the whole situation, told Steve he should take it so that he could go stay with his sister and be rested to pick us up once we were able to fill some empty seats on a flight back to Minneapolis. I agreed. So, Steve left us to fend for ourselves in the Las Vegas airport. Mike and I hadn’t slept in days. Hour by hour, full flight by full flight went by. We kept checking, no empty seats. We were hung over, dragging our luggage all over the Vegas airport. Couldn’t sleep because the airport was so packed with people and noises of VLT’s ringing over and over. 12 hours went by and we both just looked at each other and broke out laughing and laughing. Just laughing about the whole situation. We laughed for a good 5 minutes without saying any words. Then Fink came up with the best idea he’s ever had according to me “Curt, let’s just go grab a beer and enjoy this moment. It’s been awhile since we’ve been able to hang out like this.” We were so caught up with the disappointment of not being able to get a flight home that we forgot to enjoy each other's company. After 12 hours of misery we spent the next 12 hours laughing and having fun. We must have looked like we were having fun because people from all over the airport started sitting and having a drink with us and Fink would tell them our story about how we got stuck in an airport together. Fink loved telling stories and he told that story many times. We eventually found a flight home. It was about 24 hours after we had arrived at the airport. I kept track of every minute of those first 12 hours but lost track of the last 12…they just flew by. In retrospect I wish I hadn’t been so uptight about those first 12 hours…I should have been enjoying that time with Fink as I had with the second half. We truly bonded during those last few hours. Our seats on the flight home were side by side at the very back of the plane so they did not recline. We laughed our asses off again and imagined Steve just rolling out of bed well rested and refreshed. All we wanted to do was go back into the airport and have another beer. Neither of us could sleep on that flight so we stayed up talking hockey and football. That was another thing mike loved was sports and he knew a lot. When Fink talked hockey it turned into an educational clinic. Steve was at the airport waiting for us when we landed, well rested and refreshed just as we had imagined. Fink wasted no time telling our story…fully intending to defame Steve Hill travel agency in which he succeeded. And just when it looked like Fink was finally going to get some shut eye on our drive home to Winnipeg…Steve had bought a hot tamale sausage along with his coffee on the way to pick us up from the airport. Every time Mike tried to get some sleep…Steve would stick that sausage in his ear and laugh hysterically. Woke him up every time. If it were me I would have had nightmares, but Fink took it like a champ. He never complained or was upset about anything that had happened during our whole sleepless flight fiasco. That was the last trip I went on with Fink. I always thought we would share many more as we grew older. I wouldn’t give up memories of that trip for all the money in the world. I remember it vividly like it happened yesterday and every time we got together we would talk about it and laugh about it. I loved Vegas so much that 4 months later I took my girlfriend Stephanie there and have been there many times since. I vowed to go back with Mike at least one more time. On September 27th 2012 Stephanie and I were married in Vegas at Mandalay Bay. 77 people came out there to join us. Fink was supposed to be one of those people but was unable to come because he was going through chemo at the time. Thank you Mike for inviting me to Vegas, that trip has become a great blessing upon my life. The next time you find yourself in an unfavorable situation with someone you love, just sit back and enjoy the moment. Enjoy the time you get to share with one another. That time may be a blessing and you may never get it again. Love and laugh with each other and just know that all is well. To the friends and family of Mike Finkbeiner, I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Mike was a great friend and he will be missed. Hopefully stories like this will keep his memory in our hearts for eternity. Curtis - Posted by: Curtis Relke (Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• My thoughts and prayers are with The Finkbeiners at this time. Fink and I met when we were 10 years old at Robert H. Smith. My favourite memory of Fink was playing a game of "spin the bottle" in the basement at Sam Adkins house when we were in elementary school. It was the round 'kiss on the cheek'. My turn was next so I got up, spun the bottle, and it landed on Fink. No two ways about it - the top of the bottle was pointing directly at him. We both had to get up, stand in the middle of the circle of all our friends, and I had to kiss him on the cheek. I was shaking like crazy, so nervous. Fink stood there with an expression on his face "get on with it Meaghan!". I kissed him then turned bright red. Everyone laughed but I was mortified... I had just kissed a boy! The years passed. Fink and I would bump into each other at River Heights Jr High and Kelvin High School and always laugh at that one moment when we were little. Such great memories. Fink will be forever cherished. He will always be the first boy I ever kissed. - Posted by: Meaghan Murta (Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• My heart goes out to Mike's family, Princess and all us who are blessed enough to have him in our lives. Mike and I worked together, he as lease coordinator and I as the Account Manager in Vancouver. That work relationship quickly became one of my most treasured, special friendships. Even though we were thousands of miles apart he was my cheerleader, my confidante, my comedian, Uncle Mike to our oldest little girl and the one even my husband knows I refer to and always will, as "my guy". Even though I teased him that he broke my heart when he dumped me for mid-ticket I told him repeatedly how proud I was of him for taking on the new challenges that he was so deserving of. I never felt like flying to Winnipeg so often as I have through Mike's illness. Being so far away was so difficult and seeing him my last visit there in November was such a gift. We couldn't stop talking and sharing our Jen and Mike thoughts all with our usual optimism of what we were doing about it and how we could support and help each other. Most importantly he knew I couldn't stop smiling and hugging him and how hard it was going to be for me to leave---he reminded me again of what we have always said to each other but now it took on a deeper meaning. That we can always be there for each other regardless of the distance and that he would always be with me and my "guy". As soon as I arrived home there was already an email from him. When I shared the news with my 8 year old on Friday she saw how sad I was and she told me to just remember that now Mike is always with me. He would have loved that. Once again I feel so far away from Winnipeg but know my heart is with all of you and I am there with you in thought. Jen. - Posted by: Jenny O'Callaghan (Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• I have to thank Mike for always being a great guy and always the funniest in the room. I only saw him sporadically over the last few years but every time I did see him we would pick it up right where we left off. I really appreciated that. My condolences, Brent - Posted by: Brent Badger (Friend) on: Mar 05, 2013

• My sincerest condolences to everyone who knew Michael. My childhood memories are always the most important to me, and I am grateful to say he was part of them. I can only pray that he is now in a better place today. - Posted by: Alison Mackean (Family friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Mike and I worked as a Sales Team for the Edmonton Branch...Mike LUV'd hockey and we had an amazing work-hockey connection on how we approached everyday: 'in the ready position'; head on a swivel; and anticipating the next play...he contributed to the development of the Edmonton Branch and I will always remember him as a Team Player!!! Extending condolences to his family and all those had a connection to Mike!!! - Posted by: Candice Dowhaniuk (Colleague at National Leasing) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Michael was a dear friend of mine whom we met at Robert H. Smith school during our elementary school years. His family and mine went on many ski trips together and grew up together. He was kind, humorous and a genuine person. My heart goes put to his mom, dad and brothers. May you rest in peace. We all love you Kristian - Posted by: Kristian Sigurdson (Friend ) on: Mar 04, 2013

• My heart goes out to Mike's family, friends and Princess. I am truly sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Caroline Thomas (Co-worker from National Leasing) on: Mar 04, 2013

• As the mom of two sons it is unimaginable the grief and sense of loss being experienced by Doug and Pat, Michael's family, Princess and his many friends. May fond remembrances lead you through this difficult time and may they also be the treasures that will keep Michael connected to you forever. Much love and caring is being sent your way. With affection, Doug's cousin, Cathy - Posted by: Cathy Pearce (Doug Finkbeiner's Cousin) on: Mar 04, 2013

• We recently heard about Mike's sad passing from our good friends Rick and Elaine Stevenson. During the years we lived in Winnipeg, we have many fond memories of Mike coming to our home to watch movies or swim in our pool. Mike was in the same grade as our daughter Meaghan from grade 4 to grade 9. Meg was also good friends with Sam Adkins who at that time was Mike's best friend. Please accept our deepest condolences, our love goes to each of you at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Fondly, Lyn and Jack Murta, 34 Belvedere Crescent, Ottawa, Ontario K1M 2G4 - Posted by: Lyn and Jack Murta (Long ago friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Mike and I worked together at National Leasing. He was friendly and I enjoyed his sense of humor. I watched Mike come and go in the office over the past year and what sticks out the most is this: you could never tell he was ill...he still had that smile on his face and that friendly "hello" each morning. Fink, you will be missed! - Posted by: Sandra Krohn (Colleague/Friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• My deepest condolences to Michael's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Fink and I met when we were 7 years old playing soccer for the River Heights Cardinals; we would continue playing on those teams together for several years. We also attended River Heights and Kelvin High and ran into each other from time to time at the University of Manitoba. Mike was truly a great friend and is a tremendous loss to all of us that had the privilege to call him a friend. He was genuine, always had your back, and boy could he make you laugh. His uncanny quick wit and humour were for the ages. He made me cry from laughter more times than I can remember, he had a knack for becoming the life of the party. Never one to back down from a challenge, I'll never forget his face when he attempted to eat a pound of homemade suicide wings during one of the many memorable Superbowl parties. Although we grew apart, as friends sometimes do, we made it a habit this past year to run into each other at Jets games. We'd share a beer (or 3) during intermissions and catch-up, and talk about everything the Jets weren't doing right - much the same way we did in the '90's. I was able to get to a game this past weekend knowing that it would be a little different, and it was, but I was comforted by the fact that I knew he was up there watching, yelling at them to do something on the ice. Thanks for the great memories, Fink, you were one of a kind. Love ya, bro. - Posted by: James Kusie (Friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• My Deepest and sincerest condolences go out to Mike's family, friends and anyone who knew him. Mike You will certainly be missed. Mike and I met at National Leasing, our friendship flourished whilst mastering the art of Ping Pong at lunch hours, almost every lunch hour. Later evolving to catching the hockey games at Boston Pizza and later playing ball hockey on the same team. Many good laughs and great conversations ! I'll miss you bro ! - Posted by: Patrick Philippot (Friend and Former Colleague) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Pat, Doug & family Our truths & prayers are with you - Posted by: Ken & Del Jones (friends) on: Mar 04, 2013

• I worked with Mike many years ago and we became close friends. He was one of the very few people who I felt was a true friend through thick and thin. I looked up to him and will miss him deeply forever. This world lost one of the best people ever to live in it. I am grateful to have known him. I'll miss you forever fink (((hugs))) - Posted by: Tamara Gosselin () on: Mar 04, 2013

• I met Mike when I was in nursery school. My mom said I was always talking about 'fink' who she thought was my imaginary friend until we met him and his dad at the park at river heights CC. Then I yelled FINK and his dad explained that was their last name. He was probably the sweetest and funniest boy I ever knew. While the boys grew up and became not so nice he was always solid. After high school I saw him periodically like all river heights kids do and it was like nothing ever changed. We joked about sev club after school in grade 9 and brought each other up to speed w our lives. Last winter him and Doug were in front of us at the jets game and I was so happy to see him and to have my husband meet "the nicest guy I ever knew". We talked about the final season the jets were here because we used to go to almost every game. He was really happy the last Time I saw him. My condolences to his parents and brothers. Also to the Stevensons and Adkins families who I know were family lifelong friends. Xoxo - Posted by: Caitlin Gordon (Friend ) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Dear Pat, We haven't seen each other for many years. I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss of your son Michael. Please know that you are in my thoughts at this difficult time. My heart aches for you, Doug and family. I am joining your many friends to offer you strength and support. Sincerely, Margaret Sutherland (Cross) - Posted by: margaret sutherland ( cross ) (Friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Our thoughts and prayers are with the family - Posted by: Don & Sarah MacKenzie (Friend ) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Mike has been a dear friend for many years. While life has brought us on different paths my friendship with Mike has never waivered. Like all of Mike's friends, he has been a constant in an ever changing world. Their is now a void in our hearts that only our wonderful memories of this man can fill. My deepest sympathies to all that have lost this person in their lives. Memories of the many rounds of golf, or trips to the cabin, memories hockey pools or spongee games, memories of quiet conversations or kitchen party arguments where Mike would never change his mind. I, like all of his friends, will miss Mike and the laughs he brought with him everywhere he went. Cheers to Mike's memories. - Posted by: Jeff Kirkpatrick (friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• I had the pleasure of babysitting Michael, John, and Jamie when they were young boys. They were a delightful trio. Especially now, Kaiya and Tawnee are grateful for the most recent time they've spent getting to know all three brothers in their adult life. They've shared with me many wonderful stories of their visits. Our hearts are with all of Michael's family. May the many good memories help you through these tough times. - Posted by: Karen, Kaiya, and Tawnee Hedley (Family) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Doug, Pat, John & James: I know that nothing that anyone can say could ever begin to fill the void that's been created in your lives. But take comfort in the knowledge that like Michael, you are all loved and greatly admired and that you are indeed fortunate to have each other and to have had the chance to know and love Michael. His time was too short, but what time he had could not have been with a better family. All our love, Jim & Penny - Posted by: Jim McLandress (Colleague of Doug's) on: Mar 04, 2013

• I went to school with Fink from grade 7 through to university and we've been friends ever since. Whether it was shooting a high score at the Assiniboine golf & country club, the occasional ski trip out west, or great conversation over a beer, he was always someone I really enjoyed hanging out with. You could talk to him about anything. He was a good man and I was proud to be his friend. I'll miss you bud. - Posted by: Ryan Merner (Friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Mike was one of the most sincerest people I knew. We became friends in 1997 at the Relke cabin long weekend party. Since then Mike and I would have in depth conversations about life and he would coax me into pushing myself harder. He always supported me in being who I was and helped me to feel just a little more comfortable in my own skin. I appreciated Mike's guidance and ploys to try to get me to sell my horse. This world is at a huge loss without him and he will be missed very much. Love you bud you will never be forgotten. - Posted by: Rob Kerr (Friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• My sincere condolences to Mike's Family. I was fortunate enough to work with Mike over the last several years as he transitioned into the Mid-Ticket department. Mike was always ready and willing to get his hands dirty, step in wherever needed and eager to learn new things about our department. I'll miss those long work drives to Edmonton where I would call Mike to chat about hockey, life and business. He had this amazing way of finding the good in everyone he knew and he always made you feel like you should be on a pedestal, even when you didn't deserve it. On the flip side he knew when and how to put you in your place with his quick wit and a well timed jab (okay clownshoes). I admired his strength, courage and fight during his battle over the last year and a bit. It saddens me that we have lost such a good person so soon and I can't help but think how much better our world would be if we had more people like Mike in it. - Posted by: Andrew Del Bucchia (co-worker at National Leasing) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Far too young to leave, but I know that your Uncle "Sir" is waiting with open arms to greet you on your next adventure. My sincere condolences with all my love to the family - Posted by: D'Arcy Hedley (Family) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Dear Doug & family, I didn't know Mike, but I am certain that he, being a Finkbeiner, must have been a very fine young man. I hope that knowing others are thinking of you and your family at this very difficult time is helpful in some small way. Take care, Graham Robson - Posted by: Graham Robson (Know Doug) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Pat and Doug, we were so saddened to hear about the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult of times. Most Sincerely, Pat and Tim Nosworthy - Posted by: Pat and Tim Nosworthy (friends of parents) on: Mar 04, 2013

• I met Mike in 1998 when he played for Agent Orange and I played for LOD. We had the misfortune of losing to them in the championship final. I don't know exactly how it happened but somehow we were lucky enough to have Fink join our team in 2000. Guess what, we won our first championship. During the next 13 years we have won 6 more championships and Fink was an important factor. Mike was a very good player but most of all what I really liked about Mike was all the great times we had after the games. Mike rarely ever missed going for a few brews with the team and we spent countless hours talking about all sports but mainly LOD, Bombers, Jets and the Moose. Even though there is a 20 year gap in ages between Mike and me, I considered him a good friend and Sunday nights in December and January will never be the same. My last memory of Fink was on January 13 on the bench at Westridge watching our team play. We both were not playing and we spent our time talking about us both playing in the playoffs. Without Mike we did not win the championship and his presence then and in the future will be missed. Rest in peace my friend - Posted by: Bob Neufeld (friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• I worked with Fink at National Leasing. He was such a great guy and pleasure to be around. He always had a positive attitude, was funny, warm and had a sarcastic sense of humour that always got me smiling. My thoughts and prayers go out to his whole family. He will be greatly missed. - Posted by: Erin Peikoff (Colleague/friend) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Our deep condolences go to Doug and Pat and family. We are so saddened to hear of your dear son's Mike passing. May he remain in your hearts so that he will be with you forever. It appears that he has touched many lives...what a great legacy. Sincerely, Ron and Gerri - Posted by: Ron and Gerri Wilkinson (Friends of the family) on: Mar 04, 2013

• Pat, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. Although we have lost touch since your retirement, your proud stories of your children, especially the many ones of Mike, have stayed with me, and helped me "hang in" during my boys' teenage years! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. - Posted by: Debbie Cunningham (Pat's co-worker from CGC) on: Mar 03, 2013

• Doug, Pat and family; So sorry to hear of the profound loss of your son. Although our paths have not crossed for some years I can only imagine how painful this journey has been for you both as parents and for Michael and his brothers. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will not be in town to attend the service but wanted you to know I was thinking about you! Faye Harden Meech - Posted by: Faye Harden Meech (Family friend) on: Mar 03, 2013

• Dear Pat and Doug, I am so sad to hear of the passing of your beloved son Mike. You have shown such kindness and strength to your friends and family during this terrible time, I hope that you know that all your friends are thinking of you and sending prayers and love every day. The world has lost a wonderful young man, lucky in one way for the exceptional family he was born into. With love from Sharron O'Brien - Posted by: Sharron O'Brien (Friend of family) on: Mar 03, 2013

• I wasn't Mikes closest friend but I have known him my entire life, through elementary sports at River Heights Community Centre to the day I got married. Mike brought life everywhere he went and there was never a moment that he didn't have a speedy retort to something being said. Whether a close or distant friend he had an impact on all our lives and he will be dearly missed. Love always your friend and accomplice! - Posted by: Anthony Giles Ringer (Friend) on: Mar 02, 2013

• Condolences to you and your family on this sad event..sincere wishes. Cynthia , Lindsay and Jessica Parker. - Posted by: Cynthia Parker and family (friends) on: Mar 02, 2013

• So sorry to hear the news. We're thinking about you. - Posted by: Rob Perkins () on: Mar 02, 2013

• I worked with Mike for the same company, He was in our Dragon Boat Team Fall of 2011, raising money for cancer. He was a super nice guy to have around. Always said hi. He will be missed Deeply around the work place. My thoughts and prayers to the whole family and close friends to Mike. He WILL BE MISSED. - Posted by: Shelley Titanich (CoWorker) on: Mar 02, 2013

• Mike and I knew each other throughout Junior High and High school. But we became closer in the years that followed. I remember spending many Friday nights having Mike, Colin, and Casey over before heading to the Pemby sharing stories and good laughs. Mike and I played sponge hockey togeher for many years. Our team "Legion of Doom's" purpose was to spend some time on a Sunday to play hockey and joke around with our teammates at Boston Pizza after the game. Yes we would tell the same stories over and over but they never got old. Mike was a special person to me. He was part of my surprize 30th birthday party my wife held for me and he shared our wedding day with us. I remember Mike telling me how honored he was that i invited him. That was the kind of guy he was, so humble. I thought to myself "of course you are invited". Once Mike got sick he was not able to play with the team yet i know he wanted to so bad. Mike still found a way to make fun of my horrible slap shot. When Mike teased me, you knew it was out of complete kindness. Spongee was not the same without him on the ice and by my side on the bench. Mike you will be missed but never fogotten. Knowing how much Mike inpacted my life i can only image what he did for his family, my thoughts are with them at this time. Mike, I know you are looking down with that great smile that always made me feel at ease. Love you man. - Posted by: Mack Hastings (Friend) on: Mar 02, 2013

• Mike was an exceptional young man. Last June I was in Winnipeg for three days. Mike and I went to Tuxedo, hit a few buckets of balls on the range and then watched the hockey draft at a friend's place. Afterwards we had a BBQ and just hung out for a few more hours. A perfect day. My heart goes out to the Finkbeiner family. It was an honour to know him. - Posted by: Rob Warden (Friend) on: Mar 02, 2013

• Worked with Mike for a couple years before I retired. He was a real nice person.Always friendly trying to to the best for the company . My sincere condolences to Mike's Familly. He will truly be missed. Life just isn't fair... - Posted by: Tim Borbridge (Worked @ National Leasing) on: Mar 02, 2013

• To my brave, brave Hero. I love you so very much and I am going to miss you so so much. You were like a big brother to me. You mean the world to me and I am so priviledged and honoured to have hadyou in my life. You will stay in my heart forever. Love always Claire xxx (McFink). Xxx - Posted by: Claire Lindsay (Scottish Cousin) on: Mar 02, 2013