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PAMELA ELAINE NEUFELD KUTCHER -
Date of Passing: Jul 20, 2013
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryPAMELA ELAINE NEUFELD KUTCHER 1965 - 2013 With deep sadness we announce the death of Pamela Kutcher, beloved wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt, cousin and friend, on July 20, 2013, as the result of a cerebral hemorrhage caused by a ruptured brain aneurism. She will be profoundly missed by her loving husband of 26 years, Paul; daughters Jessica Forsman (Cody) and Casey Kutcher (special friend Riley Marsh); parents Jay and Kay Neufeld; brother Daniel Neufeld (Kari), their children Mary-Kay, Sarah, Joshua and Karalina; sister Joy (Neufeld) Reimer, her sons Daniel and Jacob; sister Heidi (Neufeld) Willems, her children KatiAnn Von Bank (Michael, their daughter Zoey), Jay (Paula, their daughter Olivia), Anthony and Amy; brother James Neufeld (Katia); mother-in-law Jennie Kutcher; sister-in-law Doreen Hubble (Gary), her son Jack Mapstone (Sue, their daughters Brooke and Letesia); sister-in-law Thelma Hitchen (Bob), their sons David (Pam Vialoux) and Kevin; Audrey Blommaert (Ray), her children Chris Hallick (Tara Jones, his children Amanda, Kassie and Michael), Joel Hallick (Noreen), Jennifer Hallick (Charles Murray, their son Ulysses); sister-in-law Anita Krushel (Garry), their daughter Lindsay Livingstone (Ian); brother-in-law John Kutcher (special friend Rev. Debbie McMillan). She was recently predeceased by her father-in-law Peter Kutcher. Pamela was born in St. Catharines, ON where she spent the first eight years of her life. The daughter of a Mennonite Brethren minister, she moved with her family to places where her parents had been called to Pastor, first to Garden City, KS where she spent her Junior High years, from there to Dinuba, CA where she attended High School, and then to Winnipeg, where she attended the University of Winnipeg and Mennonite Brethren Bible College, obtaining a B.A. with a double major in English and Religious Studies. These early life experiences informed Pamela's passion for service, excellence and leadership, and left her with a certain restlessness. She was always on the go, always looking for opportunities to serve, to learn and to grow. Pamela and Paul were married in 1987 after he climbed a ladder to her second story bedroom window to propose to her with a guitar serenade. Together they raised two remarkable daughters, who have both caught her passion, drive, strength, beauty, faith and musicianship. She loved her family fiercely. Pamela and Paul celebrated their 26th anniversary two days prior to her death. Pamela loved to sing and play piano. She produced and directed several children's musicals, and led worship in various church settings, concerts and coffee houses. Her most favourite thing was singing with her family, and all four would sing and play together on many occasions in choirs, worship teams and their own family band. Pamela's love of learning carried on to her achieving a Master of Marriage and Family Therapy degree from the University of Winnipeg, and a clinical membership in the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. She spent six years as a therapist with Shepell F.G.I. (an employee assistance provider) before moving to W.R.H.A. where she worked as a shared-care counsellor in several clinics in Winnipeg. Her passion and deeply caring nature served her well as she enjoyed good relationships with the doctors, clients, co-workers and staff with whom she worked. As a self-described change-agent, she was always certain of one thing: given the tools, people can always become better if they so desire. To that end she shared her experiences, her faith, her learning and her encouragement in appropriate proportions, both at work and in every personal relationship she held. She was all about relationships, and treated her friendships and family as being of upmost importance. Pamela worked diligently but she also played enthusiastically. She was competitive and loved to play games and cards and do puzzles. She studied Shotokan karate for eight years and achieved her brown belt. She loved to dance Zumba with Jessica and to try to beat Casey at Sudoku. She was a voracious reader and loved a good novel or mystery. She enjoyed going on long hikes, whether at home or on vacation, sometimes alone but more often with friends; there was always something new to discover, some new challenge to conquer. A highlight for her was her 25th anniversary trip that took her, her husband and their backpacks through eight European countries in three and one half weeks. She was extremely pleased with how her yard and gardens were finally turning out. Pam's undaunted faith in the love of Jesus shone through in all she did. She was constantly on the lookout for how God would reveal himself through nature, friendships, experiences and circumstances. She was seldom disappointed in life, because she knew that "all things work to the good for those that trust Him". Her sudden passing is painful to us who are left behind, but we gain comfort knowing that she is already dancing in the arms of the Saviour she knew and loved so well. We miss you terribly already, Sweetheart. We are all better for having known you. You squeezed so much life into your short time on this earth, we could barely keep up with you! Rest well. We will see you soon. And we will dance. The family wishes to thank the caregiving staff and medical professionals at Health Sciences Centre Winnipeg for the tremendous dignity with which they treated Pamela in her last days, also to our friends and co-workers who have visited, provided meals and lifted us up in prayer through this difficult time. To the people at Celebrate Recovery, thank you for accepting us into your hearts and allowing us to serve. Funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, July 26, 2013 at Riverwood Church Community, 257 Riverton Avenue, Winnipeg. If so desired, donations may be made in Pamela's memory to the Church. KLASSEN FUNERAL HOME 1897 Henderson Hwy. - 338-0331 Condolences may be sent to www.klassenfuneralhome.com
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jul 24, 2013
Condolences & Memories (13 entries)
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May her soul rest in perfect peace. - Posted by: Tunde Bello (Colleague) on: Jul 31, 2013
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In memory of a beautiful woman, whose light shone brighter than she ever knew. From the day I met you it was as though the light of the universe shone through you. Be well Pam, I am grateful for the time we worked together. To your family, it is true, she always spoke of her family with Love, she loved and lived with such passion. Deep condolences to you, her loved ones, I knew she loved you, there was not a day that we worked together where that was not acknowledged and celebrated. I wish you all love, kindness and blessings always. Sincerely, Jen Halldorson - Posted by: Jennifer Halldorson (past colleague/friend) on: Jul 28, 2013
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Dear Paul and Family, I am so sorry to read of your great loss and also of your Dad's passing. Your Dad, wife and children's mother and grandfather will never be replaced, but their always seems to be a power that helps us through. Please pass my condolances on to your Mum and the rest of your family for me. Remembering Cypress River days, Sincerely, Verna - Posted by: Verna (Patterson) Lodge (friend) on: Jul 28, 2013
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May you all fall into the arms of Jesus and lean upon His Everlasting Arms, the very arms which now embrace and surround Pam. Paul, and family our deepest and sincere condolences. Phil & Ruth Kovacs of Dalmeny, SK. - Posted by: Philip & Ruth Kovacs (Family Friend (Kutcher)) on: Jul 28, 2013
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Paul - Val and I extend our love and thoughts to you. You loved deeply, lived wholeheartedly, and will grieve hope-fully. - Posted by: Brian & Val Krushel (Friends) on: Jul 27, 2013
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We only got to meet Pam & Paul through the homestay program. Your daughter Angie and ours Eva were the best friends. We talked a lot but not enough. Our sincere condolences to your family Denise & Terry Bonderanko's - Posted by: Denise Bonderanko's (Friend) on: Jul 27, 2013
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Dear Paul, Casey, Jess & Cody and Family, We are so sorry for the loss of your treasured wife and mother, Pam. Our family is remembering you all with love at this most difficult time. We thank God for His sustaining power and love that will carry you through each moment and give you Strength. "When all my labors and trials are o’er, And I am safe on that beautiful shore, Just to be near the dear Lord I adore, Will through the ages be glory for me. Oh, that will be glory for me, Glory for me, glory for me, When by His grace I shall look on His face, That will be glory, be glory for me." "One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple. For in the day of trouble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock." Psalm 27:4-5 Love - Brian, Cathy, Ben and Jill Dormer xoxo - Posted by: Brian and Cathy Dormer () on: Jul 26, 2013
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I give my deepest condolences to you Paul and Family. My prayers are with you. I will be thinking of you each day - Posted by: Barbara Miguez (co-worker with Paul at Allmar Inc. ) on: Jul 26, 2013
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We will remember Pam as warm and friendly, with a big smile and a beautiful singing voice to go along with it. Paul and family, may you experience a measure of peace through this most difficult time of loss and grief. We together with you live with the confident assurance through Christ, of being reunited with Pam in eternal life. - Posted by: Murray and Audrey Krushel (friends) on: Jul 26, 2013
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We give our deepest condolences to Paul, Jessica, Casey, and all those who Love Pam, and are grieving right now. Our prayers are with you daily. What more can be said than Paul's heartfelt Love for Pam, she was 'steeped' in life. Each and every person that has met her shares some part of this testimony. May the joy of Pam's Faith remind us to keep strong for one day we all will dance in eternity. Pam what joy now as you hear those thunderously powerful words, "Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your rest!" Paul, Jess, and Casey, we lift you up in the Father's Peace. When you can't see His Hand, Trust His Heart! - Posted by: Dan and Michelle Riedner, and boys (Family Friends) on: Jul 24, 2013
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Dear Members of the Kutcher family: I am so so sorry for your deep loss. May the Good Shepherd guide and shoulder you as you journey through the valley of mourning for Mrs. Kutcher's passing. Our loss is, in an incomprehensive way, God the Father's gain. He calls His children home where there is no pain, sorrow, nor tears, when He deems appropriate, I've learned. May Jesus' peace that escapes all human understanding embrace you all and each one of you. Jessica, I am so sorry! Hang onto Him for comfort! God's Holy Presence! Tom Chan - Posted by: Tom Chan (Jessica's colleague) on: Jul 24, 2013
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We have been touched and blessed by Pamela's life. She was a wonderful ambassador for our Lord and Saviour. We extend our prayers and condolences to Paul and the family. We will not forget you all. With our love - Posted by: Harry, Esther and Becky Hildebrand (Family friends) on: Jul 24, 2013
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My heartfelt sympathies to Paul,Jessica and Casey and family. Just a few weeks ago I was priviledged to meet Pamela (for the first time) and Paul. To hear them share in song "Household of Faith" was such a blessing to me. I was so sorry to hear of Pamela's passing. Faith and memories remain. God is faithful and will walk with you through the good and the challenging days ahead. My prayers are with you. Elaine Johnson-Kelowna,BC - Posted by: Elaine Johnson (Family Friend (Kuthcher)) on: Jul 24, 2013