THOMAS JAMES DAME

Condolences & Memories (50 entries)

• Sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Diana leipz () on: Oct 16, 2014

• I am just stunned by this news. My deepest sympathy to Janet and family. He will be truly missed. - Posted by: Dean Fleury (Friend) on: Sep 27, 2013

• Marie, my heart breaks for you at this terrible time in your life. Please know my thoughts are with you. - Posted by: Donna Anderson (Spence) (Friend of Marie) on: Sep 25, 2013

• We were shocked and saddened to hear this sad news. Our sincerest thoughts and prayers are with Janet, her beautiful daughters and family. - Posted by: Wade McDonald and Cindy Enns (Friends) on: Sep 23, 2013

• Our deepest condolences to Janet, Casey & Kristen (and Marie). Tom will always be fondly remembered by all of us - Posted by: Bruce Gibson & Family (co-worker) on: Sep 23, 2013

• Aunt Marie, Janet, and Tommy's girls. I am very sad to hear of Tom's passing. I have many fond memories of my childhood spending the summers with Tom in Winnipeg. Best cousin ever. Always regretted not being closer geographically. Our prayers are with you in this difficult time. Charles Earl, Calgary Alberta. - Posted by: Charles Earl (Cousin) on: Sep 22, 2013

• Janet: Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Janet & Gary Moore - Posted by: Janet Moore (nee Ryan) (Canada Post ) on: Sep 21, 2013

• My sincerest condolences to Janet and Tom's family. I was shocked and saddened upon hearing of Tom's passing, which was far too soon. It has been a long time since the days in Victoria but I have fond memories of the times spent playing ball hockey and softball with Tom and friends from the "Peg". Thoughts are with you during this time. - Posted by: Stephen Graff (Friend from Victoria) on: Sep 21, 2013

• Dear Janet, Even though we haven't spoken in years, you have always been in my thoughts from our old west St. Paul days. I remember when you and Tom were first dating and you guys were so perfect for each other. I am deeply sorry about your loss and you and your kids are in my thoughts and prayers. Love ya girl, big hugs to you and like Lucy said, we are all a phone call away. she knows how to get ahold of me too. Big hugs my girl - Posted by: Sandy Singleton (KILBORNE) (Friend) on: Sep 20, 2013

• My heart goes out to u Janet and your beautiful girls. When I heard the news I was in absolute shock and couldn't believe it. Tom was always such a joyful, fun filled person. He touched my heart years ago and always thought what a great person he was. He was such a good husband and incredible father. He will definitely be missed. I know we have lost a few years, but I am always here if u ever need to talk or just visit. Love u lots and keep and cherish every moment u shared together. - Posted by: Lucia Silva (Friend) on: Sep 20, 2013

• Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to your family. Janet we are so sorry for your loss of a loving husband and best friend who was taken far too soon. Our prayers are with you and your girls. Darby & Duncan Desjardins - Posted by: Darby & Duncan Desjardins (Friend co-worker of Janet) on: Sep 20, 2013

• Janet and family, please accept my condolences at this most difficult time. I read the posted messages this morning and your husband sounds like a terrific person. Take care of each other amd may wonderful memories help ease the pain in the months and years to come. Sincerely, Lenore Green - Posted by: Lenore Green (Janet's peer at Canada Post) on: Sep 20, 2013

• Tommy played bass for our band Big Crush (Ted Ryplanski/Al Gagliardi) in the early years when our bass player had commitments. He filled the gap with excitement and passion. His love for music and being in a band was electric, only to be topped by the smile. Many great times over the years. i then coached against him in girls hockey, another great passion coaching his daughter. You will be sadly missed, but never forgotten!!! Thanks for the fantastic memories Tommy! deepest sympathy to the family at this time Ken St.Mars and family - Posted by: Ken St.Mars (Friend) on: Sep 20, 2013

• Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters Janet. - Posted by: Marc and Tracey Dufault (friend) on: Sep 19, 2013

• Marie, Our hearts go out to you and Tom's family. Sincerest Sympathy. - Posted by: Ken and Judi Jansen (Condo family friends) on: Sep 19, 2013

• Our deepest condolences to your family. I was truly saddened to hear of this tragedy even though I did not know Tom. But as a mother of sons, as a wife, and a daughter who lost a father at a young age as well, this truly hit upon so many levels of sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Cindy and Darryl Schmidt and boys (friends of Marie) on: Sep 19, 2013

• Janet, Casey and Kristen: Our deepest condolences on your loss. Tom will be forever missed. You are in our hearts and prayers in this difficult time. God Bless - Posted by: Phil Starodub and family (Friend) on: Sep 19, 2013

• What to say to such terrible news? I know this to be true LOVE NEVER DIES. Love you friend. Lorie - Posted by: Lorie Semanski (Friend) on: Sep 19, 2013

• Janet - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. - Posted by: Melanie Gilleta () on: Sep 19, 2013

• Marie and family, I am saddend to hear of your son's sudden passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God be with you. Nora Peterson née King - Posted by: Nora Peterson (Friend of Marie's Providence Hospital School of Nursing) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Our hearts go out to you Janet, to the girls, to both of your families, and to all of your friends. I got to know Tom from working at MB Highways together and appreciated how supportive he was, especially for an IT guy in an engineering world. Not only did he go out of his way to help us out, he had a great personality - not a usual feature for an IT person. And just a month or so ago, we had been discussing his potential return from Justice. I know many of his former co-workers were shocked to hear the news of Tom's passing, as he left a great impression on all those that he met. I always enjoyed our time together, and when Maria and Janet became friends, we both were looking for more fun times together. We enjoyed the evening last year, when you invited us and Karyl and Jim to join the two of you at your house. We had a great evening, and I know Karyl was planning another night in the next couple of weeks. We'll miss you Tom. You were really one of a kind. Our only regret is that we couldn't have spent more time together. You will be missed. - Posted by: Maria & Lance Vigfusson (Friends and former co-worker) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Marie: Our deepest sympathy reaches out to you and your family in your hour of need. From reading the obituary, Thomas sounds like a wonderful son and enriched many lives. Please know you are in my prayers. Carolann - Posted by: Carolann Louttit (Boyle) (Friend of Marie's) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Tom was many things, musician, father, husband, sportsman, friend, child and workmate...he was optimistic, dynamic and calm...he was an imaginative thinker...i will always remember his music and his smile...my prayers and thoughts are with his family - Posted by: Shauna Curtin (work mate) on: Sep 18, 2013

• MY DEEPEST SYMPATIES. TOM WILL BE FOREVER MISSED. WALTER- - Posted by: WALTER DVORSKI (OLD FRIAND) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Dearest Marie, Janet, and girls - Although I never had the opportunity to meet Tom, just from the wonderful comments I have heard over the years about your son, husband, father, it was my loss to never have met Tom in person. My love and sincere condolences go out to the whole family. I will keep you all in my prayers and ask God to assist you at this most trying time. Rest in peace Tom. - Posted by: Pat Murdock (retired co-worker of Janet's and current neighbour of Marie) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Janet and family, from old friends and colleagues out here in Victoria, our sincere condolences. I walked around 4000 Seymour and shared the sad news to the many who worked or played hockey with Tom. There are many definitions of "life" out there and I prefer "life is a collection of memories". That said, the memory of Tom I remain fond of is when a puck found its way into the net off his nose. Naturally after the shock and ribbing he took of getting hit in the snout he quickly commented on how it was "directed in" a demonstration of his untapped talent. - Posted by: Tim Gagne (old-friend) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Janet, my prayers and condolences to you and your girls. God Bless - Posted by: Marcus Jonas (co-worker) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies to your family. Janet we are so sorry for your suffering and the loss of a loving husband and best friend who was taken far too soon. Casey and Kristen, to lose a father must be harder than one can imagine. Marie, to bury a child is unbearable for a mother's heart, you raised a lovely man. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you - we pray for you and your entire family. Tom was an extraordinary person and has touched many lives. Be strong and hold on to the memories. God bless you all. Neka mu je laka zemlja. - Posted by: Ana, Mirko, Gabriela, Martina and Ante Cubela (Friends) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Tom, we will forever remember the good times hunting, dinners and just enjoying each others company. We miss you already. Rest in Peace and we will meet again one day. Janet, Casey, Kristen.....our thoughts are constantly with you in this sad time. - Posted by: Dave, Darcy, James, Jon Freudenberg (Friends,Hunting Partner) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Janet, Casey, and Kristin, We are so saddened and shocked to hear of Tom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this extremely difficult time - Posted by: Giselle, Mike, Adam and Danielle Hermann (Friends/parents of St. Andrews School) on: Sep 18, 2013

• Our deepest sympathy to you. Janet, Casey, Kristen (and Tom & Marie). Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. - Posted by: Iris & George Dame (Aunt & Uncle) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Dear Janet Casey, Kristen and Mrs. Dame, Words cannot express our sincerest sympathy and sadness on the loss of your husband, father and son. May the comfort of God and the love of your family and friends get you through this difficult time. We send our love and prayers through this message. God Bless! The Pichlyk's - Posted by: Barb, Merv, Matthew and Michael Pichlyk (Friends) on: Sep 17, 2013

• I immensely enjoyed my friendship and work with Tom in Victoria BC. After he moved back to Winterpeg, I saw occasional emails and hunting photos etc -- he was still a part of my life. Even after years, he still comes up in conversation with friends - usually involving some improbable (but true) escapade he got up to (usually involving his partner in crime Richard Stokes!) Tom's joy for life was inspiring...such a good heart. What you saw was what you got with Tom. He is greatly missed by many of us in Victoria. Janet always seemed one of the best wives a guy could have, and I envied Tom such a patient and understanding wife. And we all know, Tom was such a playful and mischievous guy, he needed an understanding wife! My heart goes out to Janet and the kids. Vincent in Victoria - Posted by: Vincent Savoy (Friend) on: Sep 17, 2013

• So sad to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Janet, Casey and Kristen at this difficult time. Tom will be missed by all who knew him. - Posted by: Dennis and Denise Yakimenko (Friends/Neighbours) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Janet..Murry and I have just been devastated with Tom's passing. I cannot even put into words...my thoughts are with you and your entire family at this very difficult time.. - Posted by: Sandi Mclean (friend) on: Sep 17, 2013

• We have so many memories. We will truly miss you. We will be there for Janet, Casey and Kristin. Our hearts are extremely heavy. We cherish the years we spent with you in Victoria. Love, Rich, Angie, Daniel, Adam and Lauren Stokes - Posted by: Richard, Angie, Daniel, Adam and Lauren Stokes (Friends) on: Sep 17, 2013

• My deepest condolences to Janet, Casey, Kristen and family. I will always think of Tom with great admiration. I have never had the opportunity to meet you however I can tell you that Tom spoke of you, his three girls, with such love and excitement, with that sparkle in his eye. We met thru work and quickly discovered our many similarities, two girls each who we loved to watch and coach (two Caseys even), a deep love of music, fishing and the outdoors. We connected immediately. We were to have lunch together two weeks ago and had to cancel, which I will forever be sorry for. I only wish we had spent more time together. I will miss him. - Posted by: Harvey Downes (friend, co-worker, fellow music and nature lover) on: Sep 17, 2013

• I'm very sorry to hear of my cousin's passing. We enjoyed many adventures at Wallace Lake back in our younger days. Rest in peace my friend. - Posted by: Kevin Curle (cousin) on: Sep 17, 2013

• As word spreads around the BC Government and Tom's many former coworkers, especially here at 4000 Seymour in Victoria, there is tremendous sadness over his passing! Our thoughts to his family and his many friends. If there is ball hockey in heaven we know Tom will be willing to come off the bench to play! - Posted by: Robert K (former coworker(Victoria)) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Our deepest condolences to Janet and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone! - Posted by: Nadine and Terry Horsman (Friend/Past Neighbors) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Dearest Janet, Casey and Kristen, We were saddened to hear of Tom's sudden passing...you are in our thoughts and prayers. I remember the happy times when we first met for dinners at Kat and Doug's many years ago when the girls were small...and to reconnect at St. Mary's. When Monica told us the sad news she said mom ..they were like family. Although our times together were few we always enjoyed it when we saw you. Tom had an amazing smile and gentle way about him. The Moss family....Mandy, Chris, Mallory, Corey and Monica Xoxoxo - Posted by: Mandy Moss (friend/parents at St. Mary's Academy) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Marie and family, so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Irene Claro (Amelias daughter) - Posted by: Irene Claro (Amelias daughter) (Friend) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Our thoughts and prayers go out to Janet and the entire Family! - Posted by: Don and Paulette Kraichy (Friends) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Tom your smile was the candle that lit the darkness of your family and friends. Your kindness and love for your family made you a role model for fathers, husbands, sons and as a brother. Your passing has been unbearable for everyone. Janet, Casey, Kristen - there are no words to express our depth of love and sympathy today and forever for your loss of Tom. Uncle Ron and Aunty Val Cousins Michelle, Raun, Susan, Connor, Grayson & Gabrielle - Posted by: Ron and Val Desharnais (Uncle and Aunt) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Janet, Casey and Kristen: We are so sorry for your loss and think about you daily. Reese has many fond memories of Tom and how comfortable he was made to feel when visiting your home. Please know that we are here to help in any way we can. - Posted by: Wayne, Carmel, Reese and Kaelin Antonishin (Friends and neighbours) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Our deepest condolences to Janet, Casey & Kristen (and Marie). Tom will always be fondly remembered by all of us. - Posted by: Daryl, Lori, Trevor & Jeremy Rusk (Friends / Neighbors) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Janet, remember to hold tight to the memories for comfort. Our deepest condolences to you, the girls and your family. Love Michelle and Gord - Posted by: Michelle & Gord Basaraba (friend) on: Sep 17, 2013

• I will miss you my dear son. Your life ended way too soon. Please know that I have been so proud of you, a mother could not have wished for a better son. You were the best husband and father and I will try my best to be there for your family in any way I can. Rest in peace Tommy and know your life has enriched us all and we will love you forever. Your mom xxxooo - Posted by: Marie Dame (Mother) on: Sep 17, 2013

• We will miss seeing our very close friend. "His boys" are sure gonna miss his horse play and life lessons that their Uncle Tom was so sure to slip in at every opportunity. He will be remembered fondly by our family forever. The Tommy Dame band will play in our hearts until we meet again. - Posted by: Kelly and Ian Forsyth (friends) on: Sep 17, 2013

• Sending prayers for healing peace to the family. - Posted by: Sherisse Demkiw-Smith (Friend) on: Sep 17, 2013