DOUGLAS VINCENT KUTCHER

Condolences & Memories (15 entries)

• A few years late. My condolences. I just found out. His spirit will be with you always. - Posted by: Steven Horne (Old friend off Monica) on: Oct 23, 2019

• Hello Monica, Not sure if you are still at this address but I wanted to try it as I am thinking of you today. Just wanted to thank you for being so wonderful to Douglas throughout these years. Many would have bailed years ago as I have been known to observe. He never mentioned he was fighting cancer over the times we shared on face-book, but that was what was wanted I am guessing, and I respect both your choices throughout. Sherry said you will bring him to Dauphin sometime this month. I would have been honoured to be there with all of you but sadly it is not possible. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with all the family as I send good energy love and support as best I can. It always brings a smile to my heart when I hear about spouses who make new moves to a place where the surviving spouse can be with family and close friends when the end is near. Be it a year or more before they pass. Renos get completed, new jobs are found, all the unpacking and gardening is complete leaving no unfinished major jobs. Looking back Monica you too will see the timing was not ideal for those left behind but the time was just perfect for those to carry on beyond the veil. Knowing you will be loved, supported and cherished is so satisfying and gives peace to those passing who worry how one will manage alone. I loved the idea that you and Douglas wanted others to remember him while he was able to read the thoughts of family and friends in print. What a wonderful idea. In my years as a palliative care worker, this would have been awesome as a suggestion for families. Yes there is much to celebrate in a life well lived. Laughter and tears all at the same time. No right way or wrong way, or grieving steps that make sense. Time shared and being open and aware of the love and sad times will be your strength. As well as living with no regrets as to the care and planning you and Douglas were gifted as his time grew near. Life is a gift and so is death when we can be a part of it. I lost another brother ( Elmer) last year the day before his 57th birthday. Knowing he too was on borrowed time he surpassed the limits set by his heart specialist by 20+ yrs. So who is laughing now? I am sure he would say as we often speak of this. He had written down what he wanted for a service (3 yrs before) right down to his shoes and socks. Still making us laugh. Telling his girls they could pick out his tie and not to bury anyone on top of him. More humour. More life shared. Thank you so much Monica, Keep well and in Touch. Please remember that I am just a call away any time of day or night. God Bless, Hugs Marlene Kutcher, Killarney On. - Posted by: Marlene Kutcher (Kutcher 2nd cousin) on: Sep 22, 2016

• Our deepest and sincere condolences on your loss .May God give you all strength and peace in the days ahead . Thinking of you all - Posted by: Jackie , Jeff , Jordan , and Jennifer Marchak (Family friend) on: Sep 10, 2016

• Douglas you left us way too early and you will be missed by many. I'll always remember the trips you and Monica made to Kelowna. One trip in particular, was when The two of you were at my place for dinner & Douglas you were playing with Tika (my dog) and at one point you were on the floor and out of the blue Tika licked the top of your head and you thought that was so funny that you let her do it again. You my friend were always real i'm not afraid to be yourself. RIP Douglas and just to let you know we will look after Monica. - Posted by: Audrey Prouse (Friend) on: Sep 07, 2016

• I am shocked and deeply sorry to hear of Douglas's passing. He was great with the students and fun to have on staff. There was the hedgehog that got loose from Douglas's classroom and an adventurous ski trip to Assessippi that come to mind. - Posted by: Craig Mackenzie (Colleague at Whitemouth School) on: Sep 06, 2016

• Douglas was the youngest of the Kutcher cousins, but what he lacked in age he made up for in kindness, curiosity and humour. I remember Douglas coming out to BC for a holiday, which wasn't much of a holiday, as he came at haying time and he pitched in and gave us a big hand. That week we appreciated his help, humour and camaraderie. I will remember the times we shared together as kids with New Years Parties/Suppers, Thanksgiving Suppers, etc. We will miss you Douglas. - Posted by: Milane Kutcher (Wallie + Emily Kutcher - Tony's brother) Kurt and Randy (paternal cousins) on: Sep 06, 2016

• I met Monica & Douglas at the pool almost every summer where we shared travel stories, or just plain laughter. Monica and I have a mutual friend through which she was taking courses to further her education. Douglas was a good guy. He was a gentle giant in the pool and I do remember his hat and Hawaiian shirts that he would stroll into the pool area with. A class act. From reading his obituary, it confirms what a great teacher, uncle, friend, spouse he was! My deepest sympathy to Monica and to all who knew and loved Douglas. Unfortunately I will be away for the memorial service, but my thoughts and prayers will be with you. God Bless! - Posted by: Karen O'Neil (Neighbour at The Ponds) on: Sep 05, 2016

• Wow. . Incredibly sorry for this loss.. He was such a fun guy and his personality was always so encouraging.. I believe one time he told me before school ended.. be true to yourself because there's no one to be true for you... hope you're at rest now. RIP - Posted by: Raven (Student) on: Sep 05, 2016

• My thoughts and prayers are with Doug's family and friends, he was a gentleman through and through. So very sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Caryn Larsen (Former co-worker) on: Sep 04, 2016

• Doug was a goof - he always like teasing me on the bus to and from school!! He was always kind and would help you if you needed it. Rest in peace Doug! - Posted by: Michelle Brown (Caldwell) (Neighbor from Dauphin ) on: Sep 04, 2016

• So sad to hear of Dougs passing. I remember him in high school full of jokes and always kind. Condolences to his family and friends and students! - Posted by: Carla Vsndenbrink () on: Sep 04, 2016

• I worked with Douglas his last couple of years at Glenlawn as an EA in his math classes. Although I never meet her, Douglas often talked about his wife and their awesome trips to Hawaii. I will forever remember him for his dry sense of humour in class and endless patience with his students. He ate his lunch in his class everyday so he was available for extra help to any students who wanted it, or just to go in and chat. RIP "Mr. Kutcher" - Posted by: Susan Turner (Co worker) on: Sep 04, 2016

• My condolences to his family. Mr Kuchar was my teacher in Whitemouth High School. He was very kind and truly enjoyed teaching us. Sorry to hear of his passing. - Posted by: Jason (Student) on: Sep 03, 2016

• I remember Doug as a student. So sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Joyce Moody (Friend) on: Sep 03, 2016

• Will miss you immensely Mr. Kutcher. Thank you for the years in Glenlawn teaching me and letting us stay in your class at lunch to play games. You will be deeply missed. Xoxo - Posted by: Maryssa Dunwoody (Studen) on: Sep 03, 2016