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HARTLEY STINSON
Date of Passing: Jan 15, 2022
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HARTLEY STINSON
Robert Earnest Hartley Stinson, died peacefully at home on January 15, after a long struggle with pulmonary fibrosis. He was 87 years old.
He was predeceased by his mother, Kathleen; his father, Harold; and his brother, Dave. He is survived by his wife, Margaret; his sons, Patrick (Stephanie) and Graham (Alana); his grandchildren, Chloe, Siena, Camille and Oliver; and his sister-in-law, Sybil King.
Hartley was born in Wawanesa, Manitoba in October of 1934. Life was difficult for the family in those depression years, especially after his father was diagnosed with TB and admitted to the Ninette Sanatorium. His father recovered after several years of treatment, but with weakened health. To find work, the family moved to Winnipeg. Hartley was a shy boy at eight years old, and he remembered finding Laura Secord School to be a big, scary place.
After high school at Gordon Bell, Hartley pursued his interest in math by enrolling in the Faculty of Engineering at the University of Manitoba. After two years of engineering studies, however, he decided that architecture was better aligned with his career interests, and so he transferred to the Faculty of Architecture. There he met his future wife, Margaret, who was pursuing a degree in Interior Design. He graduated in 1960 with a Bachelor of Architecture and found work at Smith Carter Searle.
Hartley and Margaret married in 1961 and immediately moved to London, England, where they worked and enjoyed all the concerts and plays they could fit into their schedules. After a year, they crammed their little red Austin Mini full of camping gear and set out to explore the continent. They camped from Rome to Copenhagen, and then returned to Winnipeg to find work in architectural offices.
Hartley loved classical music. In his student years, he sang in the choir at Westminster United Church. Later, he became a member of St. Andrew's River Heights United Church, where he sang in the choir and served on several church committees. He reluctantly resigned from the choir when his voice "retired", as he put it, but he continued enjoying the music of the church. He also had a talent for drawing. Each year, he produced a drawing for the family's Christmas card.
Over the years Hartley and Margaret enjoyed many performances of the Winnipeg Symphony Orchestra, the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra and the Manitoba Theatre Centre, with occasional visits to the opera and ballet. The Winnipeg Art Gallery was a favourite place to visit on Sunday afternoons.
At the time of his retirement, Hartley was the Contract Architect for the Manitoba Government Services Department and represented the architectural profession on the Canadian Construction Documents Committee (CCDC). He was honoured to be made a Fellow of the Royal Architectural Institute of Canada (RAIC) for his contributions to the profession.
Hartley was a family man above all, and nothing satisfied him more at the end of his life than being a member of a loving family.
The family thanks the WRHA Palliative Care Program for their outstanding service, which made it possible for Hartley to remain at home.
A small, private service will be held at St. Andrew's River Heights United Church.
NEIL BARDAL
FUNERAL CENTRE
204-949-2200
neilbardalinc.com
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jan 22, 2022
Condolences & Memories (14 entries)
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Dear Margaret and family It is with deep sadness and warm memories that I recently received the news of Hartley's death. When filling out the information I was asked to define my relationship with Hartley. Although I was his minister at St Andrew's I would like to think he thought of me as a friend. I certainly saw him as a friend of mine. Hartley was a intellectual who engaged in the the changing world around him. He was interesting, warm and kind. But most of all in a world where civility has diminished Hartley was a gentlemen. He was a rare breed. And I miss him. My condolences Margaret, to you and your family. Sincerely Terry Hidichuk - Posted by: Terry Hidichuk (Friend) on: Feb 27, 2022
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Hartley was very much a gentleman. We were Reh-Fit buddies and I always looked forward to his take on any subject in our discussions. He was an extremely knowledgeable man. Hartley will be missed. My sincerest condolences to Mrs Stinson and family. - Posted by: Ronald Lamontagne (Friend) on: Feb 21, 2022
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My sincere condolences to Margaret and family, on Hartley's passing. He was a fine and committed professional who remained close to the Architectural and Construction Community in his role at Manitoba Government Services, the RAIC, and other committee involvements. He had a ready laugh, a positive attitude and displayed his knowledge and integrity daily, at work, and at 'play'. John C. Petersmeyer - Posted by: John Petersmeyer (Professional Relationship and husband of a former colleague. ) on: Feb 15, 2022
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My condolences go out to you Margaret and family. Hartley was such a pleasure to work with during my time with the Province of Manitoba. Such a generous and caring nature and always offered the best of advice on any project. You complemented each other so well in that regard. He will be missed but remembered fondly. - Posted by: Joanne Gillespie Weir (Co-worker) on: Feb 13, 2022
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Margaret, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. I have found great comfort in my grandchildren since I lost my husband Aubrey in 2019. Linda - Posted by: Linda Asper (UWC colleague) on: Jan 29, 2022
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Dear Margaret and family: so sorry to hear of Hartley's passing. He was my mentor at government services and the lessons he taught me in construction contract law proved invaluable. His quiet demeanour and articulate writings on difficult situations were an invaluable asset for the province. He was highly regarded by his colleagues and I cherish the years that I worked with and for him. - Posted by: Mel Shewchuk (Co worker) on: Jan 28, 2022
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Dear Margaret and family - Joyce and I are thinking about you at this sad time and send our deepest condolences. Hartley was a gentleman, a great story teller and made such a positive contribution to society. - Posted by: Douglas Barry (Friend) on: Jan 26, 2022
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Dear Margaret, I was so sorry to hear the news of your Hartley’s passing. I remember him as being such a kind spirit on those occasions when our paths crossed. I still smile at your description of the commitment the two of you made to learn French and it did inspire me to struggle on with a similar French commitment. Know that there are others who have also walked this path and found our way. Take care Margaret. - Posted by: Brian Everton (Friend) on: Jan 25, 2022
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Dear Margaret, I was saddened and shocked to read about the death of Hartley. He was such a good friend and former neighbour.John and I aways looked forward to his special Christmas cards he personally designed especially the one he created for Waterloo Street: Midwinter Waterloo Street Greeting. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Sincerely, Judy Cameron and John Ingram - Posted by: JUDY CAMERON (Friend and former neighbour) on: Jan 24, 2022
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Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. - Posted by: Margaret Richardson (Friend) on: Jan 23, 2022
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Dear Margaret and family, we were so sorry to read of Hartley’s passing, our wonderful neighbor on Waterloo for many years. Hartley was a true gentleman, filled with knowledge that he generously shared with us. We fondly remember him regularly strolling down the sidewalk to attend choir practice or church services. We were also the grateful recipients of the beautiful Christmas cards, which demonstrated another one of his gifts. May his life be a blessing to each of you. - Posted by: Bruce Meisner and Henry Price (Friend ) on: Jan 23, 2022
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Dear Margaret & Family, We are so very sorry to read about Hartley’s passing. We enjoyed comparing “musical” notes with you both at the Symphony, and will cherish Hartley’s Christmas cards. Thinking of you, and sending our sincere condolences. - Posted by: Richard & Karen Howell (Friends) on: Jan 22, 2022
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I remember him so well Margaret. Walking in the door at GBR to see you. Always nattily dressed with bow tie. I enjoyed seeing you both 3 years ago at the GBR luncheon at the Jewish Place. I never knew he was born and raised in Wawanesa. My sister retired there. My deepest sympathy Margaret to you and your sons and their families. Sincerely, Mattie - Posted by: Mattie Middlehurst (Co-worker of Margaret) on: Jan 22, 2022
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Hartley was such a kind, gentle man who will be truly missed. He was a joy to be around and the world was a better place with him in it! Deepest condolences to Graham, Margaret, Pat and family. - Posted by: Geri & Jim Sinclair (Friend) on: Jan 22, 2022
